What you want when you were younger is not what you'll want when you are older.
When I was a kid my ideal prince charming is someone who can play basketball like my idol John Arigo. I want to become a wife or a girlfriend of a basketball player and not just become a fan. Now that I'm older, I think this is not really necessary. I'm 22 years now before I turn 23. I'm currently working already and no longer a kid. I guess things including your preference changes as you grow older. Currently, I have an amateur basketball player boyfriend right now. Of course, it was kind of a dream come true to me since ever since I want to be in this position. But I realized, being a girlfriend or wife of a basketball player ain't really easy. As a girlfriend of a baller, you need to be more understanding and patient especially when it comes to fans. You cant be rude to them. It's like you're the girlfriend but you can't just tell them to back off with your man since they are his fans. I've been in their position that's why I try to understand as hard as I could. But knowing me, I'm a very jealous person when it comes to my partner. I don't want any other women to get near my guy. But what can I do? As a fan of basketball before and until now, basketball players are known to be chased by girls. You can't avoid that fact. But on my part, I just hate those fans to don't know their limitations. And who don't know how to give respect and privacy to their idols. But of course it's always a CHOICE of the baller whether to ignore or entertain those fans who try to flirt with them right? I've been a basketball fan. But I know my limitations and I do not cross the line. I respect the relationship of my idols but if my idol will try to flirt and hit on me? that is a different story. That I wouldnt do because I know what is wrong and what is right. I know most of the basketball players are like that. Once they have a fan that is their type, they will take advantage of you and try to hit on you. And of course as fan, you can't avoid to feel special. BUT I tell you beware of those kind of people(jerk), it is not what you think it is. Too bad others are completely plain jerks....... they cheat on their girlfriends just for the enjoyment of flirting. Which is I think PATHETIC. I'm saying this as a FAN and A GIRLFRIEND OF A BASKETBALL PLAYER. To those players who can't be loyal and can't be true to their girlsfriends or wives, how dare you! Being a dick wouldnt make your dick any bigger. So better think twice because you lost your faithful girl. As for the fans out there, there's nothing wrong idolizing someone as long as you know what your limitations are. Now, what are my realizations now? As a grown up, what you want when you were younger is actually what you will want when you grow older. I always thought that having a basketball player bf is fun, now I realize that it's hard to be in their position. Now I dont know if this is really what I want. I don't know how long I could cope up with this kind of relationship or set-up. I'm just going with the flow and enjoying the relationship. Wish me luck and pray for me. But of course, it still depends on your guy. IT'S A ALWAYS A CHOICE. I can forgive once, but twice maybe is too much. Till my next post.
-Alen
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Tuesday, October 29, 20132:12 AM
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